[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.maleja.cz\/jaky-styl-vychovy-deti-preferujete\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.maleja.cz\/jaky-styl-vychovy-deti-preferujete\/","headline":"Jak\u00fd styl v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed preferujete?","name":"Jak\u00fd styl v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed preferujete?","description":"Ka\u017ed\u00e1 mince m\u00e1 dv\u011b strany A\u0165 u\u017e jste se rozhodli (\u010di t\u0159eba teprve pl\u00e1nujete do budoucna pro jak\u00fdkoli styl vychov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edch potomk\u016f, je t\u0159eba se … ","datePublished":"2025-03-02","dateModified":"2025-03-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.maleja.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.maleja.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/29b4b7cf61bc7f4a3cff4e7146cbe3cb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/29b4b7cf61bc7f4a3cff4e7146cbe3cb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"maleja.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.maleja.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a295231_w2004_t1506762931.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.maleja.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a295231_w2004_t1506762931.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.maleja.cz\/jaky-styl-vychovy-deti-preferujete\/","wordCount":544,"articleBody":"Ka\u017ed\u00e1 mince m\u00e1 dv\u011b strany A\u0165 u\u017e jste se rozhodli (\u010di t\u0159eba teprve pl\u00e1nujete do budoucna pro jak\u00fdkoli styl vychov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edch potomk\u016f, je t\u0159eba se sm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fdm n\u00e1vodem na \u00fasp\u011bch. R\u016fzn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edstupy k v\u00fdchov\u011b maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 plusy a m\u00ednusy a ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d tak mus\u00ed s\u00e1m zv\u00e1\u017eit, se kter\u00fdmi negativy je ochoten po\u010d\u00edtat a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b se s nimi je schopen vhodn\u011b poprat.  Jak\u00e9 v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 styly tak nej\u010dast\u011bji lze nal\u00e9zt v odborn\u00e9 literatu\u0159e jako\u017eto hlavn\u00ed proudy sm\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed o \u201espr\u00e1vnosti\u201c p\u0159\u00edstupu k mal\u00fdm d\u011btem a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edm adolescent\u016fm? 1. Autoritativn\u00ed v\u00fdchova Jedn\u00e1 se o p\u0159\u00edstup zalo\u017een\u00fd na t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 absolutn\u00ed moci rodi\u010de. Ten je str\u016fjcem ve\u0161ker\u00fdch pravidel, kter\u00e9 mus\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b dodr\u017eovat, aby bylo takzvan\u011b \u201eodm\u011b\u0148ov\u00e1no\u201c, tedy pova\u017eov\u00e1no za \u201ehodn\u00e9\u201c a mohlo se \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011b vyh\u00fdbat trest\u016fm za svou neposlu\u0161nost. Tresty nemusej\u00ed b\u00fdt zrovna fyzick\u00e9 povahy (nejedn\u00e1 se o t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte!), ale mohou se projevovat jako nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1kazy \u010di znev\u00fdhodn\u011bn\u00ed trestan\u00e9ho jedince.  Pozitive t\u00e9to v\u00fdchovy je fakt, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b skute\u010dn\u011b poslouch\u00e1, tedy neodmlouv\u00e1, nen\u00ed drz\u00e9 a dle o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f pln\u00ed jejich p\u0159\u00edkazy, jak nejl\u00e9pe um\u00ed. Negativem podobn\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy je ten fakt, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b se takto neprojevuje z vlast\u00ed v\u016fle, pouze ze strachu z testu a kdy\u017e nen\u00ed pod dohledem rodi\u010d\u016f, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed vystup\u0148ov\u00e1no opa\u010dn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. D\u00edt\u011b t\u00e9\u017e nen\u00ed vedeno ke schopnosti komunikovat a obh\u00e1jit vlastn\u00ed n\u00e1zor na konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed v\u011bc. 2. Liber\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchova Jedn\u00e1 se o rodi\u010dovsk\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup, kter\u00fd jako by byl \u00fapln\u00fdm opakem autoritativn\u00edho p\u0159\u00edstupu. V tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b vedeno k tomu, jak se chovat a co si myslet. Naopak. Je to pr\u00e1v\u011b potomek, kolem kter\u00e9ho se to\u010d\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00e9 d\u011bn\u00ed v rodin\u011b. Rodi\u010de v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b samo nejl\u00e9pe v\u00ed, co je pro n\u011b j dobr\u00e9, a proto mu nestanovuj\u00ed hranice (ani takov\u00e9, kter\u00e9 jsou pro n\u011bj skute\u010dn\u011b vhodn\u00fdmi!). Pozitivem podobn\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edstupu k v\u00fdchov\u011b je fakt, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed omezov\u00e1no, m\u00e1 vlastn\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed prostor a nemus\u00ed bezmy\u0161lenkovit\u011b plnit to, co mu diktuje okol\u00ed. Negativem b\u00fdv\u00e1 \u010dast\u00e1 nezvladatelnost takov\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, jeliko\u017e se nikdy nenau\u010dily, \u017ee musej\u00ed br\u00e1t ohledy na druh\u00e9. 3. Demokratick\u00e1 v\u00fdchova Tato je jak\u00fdmsi st\u0159edov\u00fdm bodem mezi ob\u011bma ji\u017e zmi\u0148ovan\u00fdmi extr\u00e9my. D\u00edt\u011b zde nen\u00ed vychov\u00e1v\u00e1no pod pohr\u016f\u017ekou trest\u016f, je vedeno ke komunikaci s rodi\u010dem (tato v\u0161ak mus\u00ed prob\u00edhat vhodn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem), z\u00e1rove\u0148 m\u00e1 ov\u0161em v kritick\u00fdch bodech v\u00fdchovy stanoveny hranice, za n\u011b\u017e by nem\u011blo vstoupit. Z hlediska v\u0161ech t\u0159\u00ed styl\u016f v\u00fdchovy lze \u0159\u00eddi, \u017ee demokratick\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup by m\u011bl b\u00fdt z\u0159ejm\u011b nejvhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm v\u00fdchodiskem.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 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